Boys and girls in ancient Greece believed
that there were three fates, in the form of three
women seated above the clouds, who spun the thread
of everyone’s life, and cut it off with shears
when death came.
We no longer believe in such things,
but we still speak of fate. Boys and girls sometimes
say that they are fated to fail in examinations, and
so think they cannot help failing. But that is
no more true than the belief about the three women
which the Grecian boys and girls held. As a matter
of fact, nothing outside of us makes evil things happen
to us. We make our own fates. Or shall I
say, we are our own fates? Someone has
said, “Our fates lie asleep along the roadside
until we waken them.” That is very true,
as I think I can show you by a story.
Not long ago I was riding on a train
up through Vermont. A boy came into the car selling
papers, books, candy, fruit, and other things.
There was a boy opposite me in the smoking-car who
wanted to appear very smart and manly. He was
smoking a cigar and looking very much traveled.
The trainboy offered him a book which had a bad title
and worse pictures in it. But in front of this
young chap sat two bright-faced, innocent-looking
boys who did not pretend to be anything but what they
were. The trainboy offered them salted peanuts.
In front of those boys sat a fine, clean-looking,
well-bred man. The trainboy offered him a good,
wholesome book.
Now, three fates were in that car
in the form of that trainboy, and each person invited
his own kind of fate by what he was in himself.
That is true all through life. Be true, and you
attract truth. Be evil, and you attract evil.
Your fate is what you are.