A few notes had better here be
given as to our “Forebears,” the kind of
stock from which my father and mother sprang.
My father’s mother, Janet Murray, claimed to
be descended from a Galloway family that fought and
suffered for Christ’s Crown and Covenant in Scotland’s
“killing time,” and was herself a woman
of a pronouncedly religious development. Her
husband, our grandfather, William Paton, had passed
through a roving and romantic career, before he settled
down to be a douce deacon of the weavers of Dumfries,
like his father before him.
Forced by a press-gang to serve on
board a British man-of-war, he was taken prisoner
by the French, and thereafter placed under Paul Jones,
the pirate of the seas, and bore to his dying day the
mark of a slash from the captain’s sword across
his shoulder for some slight disrespect or offense.
Determining with two others to escape, the three were
hotly pursued by Paul Jones’s men. One,
who could swim but little, was shot, and had to be
cut adrift by the other two, who in the darkness swam
into a cave and managed to evade for two nights and
a day the rage of their pursuers. My grandfather,
being young and gentle and yellow-haired, persuaded
some kind heart to rig him out in female attire, and
in this costume escaped the attentions of the press-gang
more than once; till, after many hardships, he bargained
with the captain of a coal sloop to stow him away
amongst his black diamonds; and thus, in due time,
he found his way home to Dumfries, where he tackled
bravely and wisely the duties of husband, father,
and citizen for the remainder of his days. The
smack of the sea about the stories of his youth gave
zest to the talks round their quiet fireside, and
that, again, was seasoned by the warm Evangelical
spirit of his Covenanting wife, her lips “dropping
grace.”
On the other side, my mother, Janet
Rogerson, had for parents a father and mother of the
Annandale stock. William Rogerson, her father,
was one of many brothers, all men of uncommon strength
and great force of character, quite worthy of the
Border Rievers of an earlier day. Indeed, it
was in some such way that he secured his wife, though
the dear old lady in after days was chary about telling
the story. She was a girl of good position, the
ward of two unscrupulous uncles who had charge of her
small estate, near Langholm; and while attending some
boarding school she fell devotedly in love with the
tall, fair-haired, gallant young blacksmith, William
Rogerson. Her guardians, doubtless very properly,
objected to the “connection”; but our young
Lochinvar, with his six or seven stalwart brothers
and other trusty “lads,” all mounted, and
with some ready tools in case of need, went boldly
and claimed his bride, and she, willingly mounting
at his side, was borne off in the light of open day,
joyously married, and took possession of her “but
and ben,” as the mistress of the blacksmith’s
castle.
Janet Jardine bowed her neck to the
self-chosen yoke, with the light of a supreme affection
in her heart, and showed in her gentler ways, her
love of books, her fine accomplishments with the needle,
and her general air of ladyhood, that her lot had
once been cast in easier, but not necessarily happier,
ways. Her blacksmith lover proved not unworthy
of his lady bride, and in old age found for her a
quiet and modest home, the fruit of years of toil
and hopeful thrift, their own little property, in
which they rested and waited a happy end. Amongst
those who at last wept by her grave stood, amidst
many sons and daughters, her son the Rev. James J.
Rogerson, clergyman of the Church of England, who,
for many years thereafter, and till quite recently,
was spared to occupy a distinguished position at ancient
Shrewsbury and has left behind him there an honored
and beloved name.
From such a home came our mother,
Janet Jardine Rogerson, a bright-hearted, high-spirited,
patient-toiling, and altogether heroic little woman;
who, for about forty-three years, made and kept such
a wholesome, independent, God-fearing, and self-reliant
life for her family of five sons and six daughters,
as constrains me, when I look back on it now, in the
light of all I have since seen and known of others
far differently situated, almost to worship her memory.
She had gone with her high spirits and breezy disposition
to gladden as their companion, the quiet abode of
some grand or great-grand-uncle and aunt, familiarly
named in all that Dalswinton neighborhood, “Old
Adam and Eve.” Their house was on the outskirts
of the moor, and life for the young girl there had
not probably too much excitement. But one thing
had arrested her attention. She had noticed that
a young stocking-maker from the “Brig End,”
James Paton, the son of William and Janet there, was
in the habit of stealing alone into the quiet wood,
book in hand, day after day, at certain hours, as
if for private study and meditation. It was a
very excusable curiosity that led the young bright
heart of the girl to watch him devoutly reading and
hear him reverently reciting (though she knew not
then, it was Ralph Erskine’s Gospel Sonnets,
which he could say by heart sixty years afterwards,
as he lay on his bed of death); and finally that curiosity
awed itself into a holy respect, when she saw him
lay aside his broad Scotch bonnet, kneel down under
the sheltering wings of some tree, and pour out all
his soul in daily prayers to God. As yet they
had never spoken. What spirit moved her, let lovers
tell was it all devotion, or was it a touch
of unconscious love kindling in her towards the yellow-haired
and thoughtful youth? Or was there a stroke of
mischief, of that teasing, which so often opens up
the door to the most serious step in all our lives?
Anyhow, one day she slipped in quietly, stole away
his bonnet, and hung it on a branch near by, while
his trance of devotion made him oblivious of all around;
then, from a safe retreat, she watched and enjoyed
his perplexity in seeking for and finding it!
A second day this was repeated; but his manifest disturbance
of mind, and his long pondering with the bonnet in
hand, as if almost alarmed, seemed to touch another
chord in her heart that chord of pity which
is so often the prelude of love, that finer pity that
grieves to wound anything nobler or tenderer
than ourselves. Next day, when he came to his
accustomed place of prayer, a little card was pinned
against the tree just where he knelt, and on it these
words: “She who stole away your bonnet
is ashamed of what she did; she has a great respect
for you, and asks you to pray for her, that she may
become as good a Christian as you.”
Staring long at that writing, he forgot
Ralph Erskine for one day! Taking down the card,
and wondering who the writer could be, he was abusing
himself for his stupidity in not suspecting that some
one had discovered his retreat and removed his bonnet,
instead of wondering whether angels had been there
during his prayer, when, suddenly raising
his eyes, he saw in front of old Adam’s cottage,
though a lane amongst the trees, the passing of another
kind of angel, swinging a milk-pail in her hand and
merrily singing some snatch of old Scottish song.
He knew, in that moment, by a Divine instinct, as
infallible as any voice that ever came to seer of
old, that she was the angel visitor that had stolen
in upon his retreat that bright-faced, clever-witted
niece of old Adam and Eve, to whom he had never yet
spoken, but whose praises he had often heard said
and sung “Wee Jen.” I am
afraid he did pray “for her,” in more
senses than one, that afternoon; at any rate, more
than a Scotch bonnet was very effectually stolen;
a good heart and true was there virtually bestowed,
and the trust was never regretted on either side,
and never betrayed.
Often and often, in the genial and
beautiful hours of the autumntide of their long life,
have I heard my dear father tease “Jen”
about her maidenly intentions in the stealing of that
bonnet; and often have heard her quick mother-wit
in the happy retort, that had his motives for coming
to that retreat been altogether and exclusively pious,
he would probably have found his way to the other
side of the wood, but that men who prowled about the
Garden of Eden ran the risk of meeting some day with
a daughter of Eve!