HIS GAYETY
A great deal has been said about Byron’s
melancholy. His gayety has also been spoken of.
As usual, all the judgments pronounced have been more
or less false. His temperament is just as little
known as his disposition, when people affect to judge
him in an exclusive way.
Let me, then, be permitted in this
instance also to re-establish truth on its only sure
basis, namely, facts.
Lord Byron was so often gay that several
of his biographers had thought themselves justified
in asserting that gayety and not melancholy
predominated in his nature. Even Mr. Galt, who
only knew him at that period of his life when melancholy
certainly predominated, nevertheless uses these expressions: “Singular
as it may seem, the poem itself (’Beppo, his first essay of facetious
poetry) has a stronger tone of gayety than his graver works have of melancholy,
commonly believed to have been (I think unjustly) the predominant trait in his
character."
Many others have said the same thing.
The truth is, that if by giving way to reflection which
was a necessity of his genius and through
circumstances which were a fatality of his
destiny he has shown himself melancholy
in his writings and very often in his dispositions,
it is no less certain that by temperament and taste,
by the activity, penetration, and complex character
of his mind, he very often showed himself to be extremely
gay. No one better than he seized upon the absurd
and ridiculous side of things or more easily found
cause for laughter. His gayety the
result of a frank, open, volatile nature, full of
varying moods was easily excited by any
absurdities, ridiculous pretensions, or witty sallies;
and then he became so expansive and charming, body
and soul with him both seemed to laugh in such unison,
that it was impossible not to catch the contagion;
but his laughter was ever devoid of malice. Slight
defects of harmony in things, or proportion, or mutual
relation, easily gave rise to mirthful sensations
in him. Being full of admiration for the beautiful,
and having, moreover, a great sense of mutual fitness,
and much activity of mind, it was with extraordinary
and instinctive promptitude that he seized upon the
contradictory relations existing between objects, and
indeed on all showing a voluntary absence of order
and beauty in the conduct of free reasonable beings.
His laughter was then quite as aesthetical as it was
innocent. And even if it were not admitted, as
it is by all philosophical moralists, that no sort
of personal calculation enters into this entirely
spontaneous emotion, no sentiment of superiority over
the being we are laughing at for selfishness
and laughter never coexist if it were
possible, I say, to doubt all this, even then to see
Lord Byron laugh would have sufficed to give the right
conviction. For truly his mirth was a charming
thing; the very air surrounding him appeared to laugh.
Then would his soul, that often required
to emerge from its deep reflections, unbend itself,
and alternately disport or repose in utter self-abandonment.
It dismissed thought, as it were, in order to become
a child again; to deliver itself over to all the caprices
of those myriad changeful fugitive impressions that
course through the brain at moments of excitement.
Moore often recurs to Byron’s
liveliness. “Nothing, indeed, could be
more amusing and delightful.... It was like the
bursting gayety of a boy let loose from school, and
seemed as if there was no extent of fun or tricks
of which he was not capable.” When Moore
visited him at Mira, in the autumn of 1812, and accompanied
him to Venice, the former expressed himself as follows
in his memorandum of that occasion:
“As we proceeded across the
lagoon in his gondola the sun was just setting, and
it was an evening such as Romance would have chosen
for a first sight of Venice, rising ‘with her
tiara of bright towers’ above the wave; while
to complete, as might be imagined, the solemn interest
of the scene, I behold it in company with him who had
lately given a new life to its glories, and sung of
that fair City of the Sea thus grandly:
’I stood in Venice,
on the Bridge of Sighs;
A palace and a prison on each
hand:
I saw from out the wave her
structures rise
As from the stroke of the
enchanter’s wand:
A thousand years their cloudy
wings expand
Around me, and a dying Glory
smiles
O’er the far times,
when many a subject land
Look’d to the winged
Lion’s marble piles,
Where Venice sat in state, throned on
her hundred isles!’
“But whatever emotions the first
sight of such a scene might, under other circumstances,
have inspired me with, the mood of mind in which I
now viewed it was altogether the reverse of what might
have been expected. The exuberant gayety of my
companion, and the recollections any thing
but romantic into which our conversation
wandered, put at once completely to flight all poetical
and historical associations; and our course was, I
am almost ashamed to say, one of uninterrupted merriment
and laughter till we found ourselves at the steps
of my friend’s palazzo on the Grand Canal.
All that ever happened, of gay or ridiculous, during
our London life together; his scrapes and my lecturings;
our joint adventures with the Bores and Blues, the
two great enemies, as he always called them, of London
happiness; our joyous nights together at Walter’s,
Kinnaird’s, etc.; and that ’d d
supper of Rancliffe’s, which ought to have been
a dinner;’ all was passed rapidly in review
between us, and with a flow of humor and hilarity on
his side of which it would have been difficult for
persons even far graver than even I can pretend to
be, not to have caught the contagion.”
Lord Byron was especially prone to
mirth and fun in the society of those he liked; to
jest and laugh with any one was a great proof of his
sympathy for them. When he wrote to absent dear
ones, he would constantly say, “I have many
things to tell you for us to laugh over together.”
In several letters addressed from Greece to Madame
G , he informs her of these treasures
of mirth, held in reserve for the day of meeting,
that they might laugh together. Lord Byron rarely
used flattering language to those he loved. It
was rather by looks than by words that he expressed
his feelings and his approbation. His delight
with intimates was to bring out strongly their defects,
as well as their qualities and merits, by dint of
jests, clever innuendo, and charming sallies of humor.
The promptitude with which he discovered the slightest
weakness, the faintest symptom of exaggeration or affectation,
can hardly be credited. It might almost be said
that the persons on whom he bestowed affection became
transparent for him, that he dived into their
thoughts and feelings.
It was this state of mind especially
that gave rise to those sallies of wit which formed
such a striking feature of his intelligence. Then
his conversation really became quite dazzling.
In his glowing language all objects assumed unforeseen
and picturesque aspects. New and striking thoughts
followed from him in rapid succession, and the flame
of his genius lighted up as if winged with wildfire.
Those who have not known him at these moments can
form no idea of what it was from his works. For,
in the silence of his study, when, pen in hand, he
was working out his grand conceptions, the lightning
strokes lost much of their brilliant intensity; and
although we find, especially in “Don Juan”
and “Beppo,” delightful pages of rich
comic humor, only those who knew him can judge how
superior still his conversation was. But in this
gay exercise of his faculties, which was to him a
real enjoyment in all his sallies or even in his railleries,
not one iota of malice could be traced unless
we call by that name the amusement springing from mirth
and wit indulged. Even if his shafts were finely
pointed, they were at the same time so inoffensive
that the most susceptible could not be wounded.
The great pleasure he took in jesting
appears to have belonged to his organization, for
it accompanied him throughout life. We have already
seen what his nurses, his preceptors, and the friends
of his childhood said on this subject. We have
observed his sympathy for the old cup-bearer of his
family mansion; the pleasantries expended on the quack
Lavander, who was always promising to cure his foot,
and never did; the jesting tone of his boyish correspondence;
afterward the masqueradings that took place at Newstead
Abbey; then again his gay doings with Moore and Rogers
in London; the jests pervading the correspondence of
his maturer years; then their concentration in “Beppo”
and “Don Juan;” and finally, how often,
even in Greece, when he was already unwell at Missolonghi,
he could not help giving way to pleasantry and childish
play to such a degree that good Dr. Kennedy, when he
wished to convert him to his somewhat intolerant orthodoxy
at Cephalonia, found one of the obstacles to consist
in the difficulty of keeping Lord Byron serious.
“He was fond,” says the
doctor, “of saying smart and witty things, and
never allowed an opportunity of punning to escape him....
He generally showed high spirits and hilarity....
I have heard him say several witty things; but as
I was always anxious to keep him grave and present
important subjects for his consideration, after allowing
the laugh to pass I again endeavored to resume the
seriousness of the conversation, while his lordship
constantly did the same.”
And then Kennedy adds: My impression from them was, that
they were unworthy a man of his accomplishments: I mean the desire of jesting."
These words well characterize the honest Methodist, who, like
many other good and noble minds, yet could not understand fun. This incapability
is also sometimes the case with persons of a sour, ill-natured, or susceptible
disposition, whose excessive vanity is shocked at all simple, innocent
explosions of gayety and pleasantry. Colonel Stanhope, who
knew Lord Byron at the same period, and who was not
a Methodist, but who from other causes could not appreciate
the poet’s vivacious wit, said:
“The mind of Lord Byron was
like a volcano, full of fire and wrath, sometimes
calm, often dazzling and playful.... As a companion,”
he adds, “no one could be more amusing than
Lord Byron; he had neither pedantry nor affectation
about him, but was natural and playful as a boy.
His conversation resembled a stream; sometimes smooth,
sometimes rapid, and sometimes rushing down in cataracts.
It was a mixture of philosophy and slang, of every
thing, like his ‘Don Juan.’
He was a patient, and in general a very attentive,
listener. When, however, he did engage with earnestness
in conversation, his ideas succeeded each other with
such uncommon rapidity that he could not control them.
They burst from him impetuously; and although he both
attended to and noticed the remarks of others, yet
he did not allow these to check his discourse for an
instant.”
“There was usually,” writes
Count Gamba, his friend and companion in Greece, in
his interesting work, entitled “Last Travels
of Lord Byron in Greece,” “a liveliness
of spirit and a tendency to joke, even at times of
great danger, when other men would have become serious
and pre-occupied. This disposition of mind gave
him a kind of air of frankness and sincerity which
was quite irresistible with those persons even who
were most prejudiced against him.”
This allusion of Count Gamba refers
to the letter which Byron wrote in the midst of the
Suliotes, among whom he had taken refuge during the
storm and to escape the Turks.
“If any thing,” writes
Lord Byron, on the point of embarking for Missolonghi,
and in his last letter to Moore, “if any thing
in the way of fever, fatigue, famine, or otherwise,
should cut short the middle age of a brother warbler,
like Garcilasso de la Vega, I pray you remember me
in ‘your smiles and wine.’
“I have hopes that the cause
will triumph; but, whether it does or no, still ‘honor
must be minded as strictly as a milk diet.’
I trust to observe both.
BYRON.”
“It is matter of history,”
continues Count Gamba, “that Lord Byron, in
consequence of vexations to which he was ever
a victim, added to the rigorous diet which he followed
(he only fed upon vegetables and green tea, to show
that he could live as frugally as a Greek soldier),
and from the impossibility which he found to take
any exercise at Missolonghi, had a nervous fit, which
deprived him of the power of speech and alarmed all
his friends and acquaintances. When the crisis
had worn off, he merely laughed over it.”
“Even at Missolonghi,”
says Parry, who knew him there only in the midst of
troubles and vexations of every description and
quite at the close of his life, “he loved to
jest in words and actions. These pleasantries
lightened his spirits, and prevented him from dwelling
on disagreeable thoughts.”
Perhaps this disposition of character
was the result of his French origin, for it is scarcely
known or even appreciated in England.
“Yet,” exclaims the greatest-minded
woman of our day (Madame G. Sand), “it is that
disposition which forms the charm of every delicate
intimacy, and which often prevents our committing many
follies and stupidities.
“To look for the ridiculous
side of things is to discover their weakness.
To laugh at the dangers in the midst of which we find
ourselves is to get accustomed to brave them; like
the French, who go into action with a laugh and a
song. To quiz a friend is often to save him from
a weakness in which our pity might perhaps have allowed
him to linger. To laugh at one’s self is
to preserve one’s self from the effects of an
exaggerated self-love. I have noticed that the
people who never joke are gifted with a childish and
insupportable vanity.”
Nevertheless, there are high and noble
natures that never laugh, and are incapable of understanding
the pleasures of gayety. But minds like these
have some vacuum; they certainly lack what is called
wit.
Lord Byron’s gayety, full of
dazzling wit and varied tints, like his other faculties,
never went beyond the limits befitting its exercise
in a beautiful soul. As much as the truly ridiculous,
that which a great writer has defined, “the
strength, small or great, of a free being, out of
proportion with its end,” as much,
I say, as the truly ridiculous attracted and amused
him, just as much did grave, moral, and physical disorders,
produced by corruption of body or soul, sadden and
repel his nature, so full of harmony. He could
never laugh at these latter. The grave disorders
of soul that exist in free beings, and that are therefore
voluntary, raised sadness, anger, or indignation in
him, according to the degree of vice or disorder.
We need seek no other origin for his bitterest satires
in verse and prose. Great ugliness and physical
defects certainly inspired him with great disgust,
consequent upon his passion for the beautiful; but,
at the same time, involuntary misfortunes excited
his liveliest compassion, often testified by the most
generous deeds.
We know, for instance, that Lord Byron
had a defect in one of his feet, but a defect so slight although
it has been greatly exaggerated that people
have never been able to say in which of the two feet
it did exist. Nor did it in any way diminish
the grace and activity all his movements displayed.
If its existence were painful for him, that must have
been because his sense of harmony looked upon this
defect as detrimental to the perfection of his physical
beauty. But whatever may have been the cause
of this sensibility, it sufficed in any case to make
him feel a generous compassion for all those afflicted
with any defect analogous to his own. Lord Harrington,
then Colonel Stanhope, says:
“Contrary to what we observe
in most people, Lord Byron, who was always very sensitive
to the sufferings of others, showed greatest sympathy
for those who had any imperfection akin to his own.”
At Ravenna, his favorite beggar limped. And on
him Lord Byron bestowed the privilege of picking up
all the largest coins struck down by his dexterous
pistol-shots in the forest of pines. We have said
he never laughed at any involuntary defect, not even
at a person falling (as is so often the case), for
fear it might have been caused by bodily weakness,
neither did he ridicule any of the weaknesses or shortcomings
of intelligence.
He did not laugh at a bad poet on
account of his bad verses. When he was at Pisa,
an Irishman there was engaged in translating the “Divine
Comedy.” The translation was very heavy
and faulty; but the translator was most enthusiastic
about the great poet, and absolutely lived on the
hope of getting his work published. All the English
at Pisa, including the kind Shelley, were turning
him into ridicule. Lord Byron alone would not
join in the laugh. T ’s
sincerity won for him grace and compassion. Indeed
Lord Byron did still more; for he wrote and entreated
Murray to publish the work, so as to give the poor
poet this consolation. Not content with that
step, he wrote to Moore to beg Jeffrey not to criticise him, undertaking himself
to ask Gifford the same thing, through Murray. Perhaps they might speak of the
commentaries without touching on the text, said he; and then he added with his
usual pleasantry, However, we must not trust to it. Those dogs! the text is too
tempting."
Nor did he laugh at exaggerated devotion,
even if it were extravagant or superstitious, provided
he thought it sincere. Countess G ,
paternal aunt of Countess G , the
greatest beauty of Romagna in 1800, had fallen into
such extreme mystical devotion, through the brutal
jealousy of her husband, that she died in the odor
of sanctity. This lady wrote to her brother,
Count G , at Genoa, saying how happy
she was, and giving no end of praise to “the
good Jesuit Fathers,” and speaking of her devotion
to St. Teresa. Madame G , having
sent one of these letters to Lord Byron, he answered:
“I consider all that as very respectable,
and, moreover, enviable. The aunt is right;
I wish I could love the good fathers and St. Teresa.
After all, what does this devotee of St. Teresa, this
friend of the good Jesuit Fathers, want? Happiness;
and she has found it! What else are we seeking
for?”
We have already seen elsewhere
that Lord Byron never, at any period of his life,
laughed at religion or its sincere votaries,
whatever might be their creed of belief. Provided
their errors came from the heart, they commanded his
respect. Dallas himself, in reference to the
skeptical stanzas of his twenty-second year, can not
help rendering him justice.
“I have not noticed,”
says he, “a spirit of mockery in you; and you
have the little-known art of not wishing that others
should be of your opinion in matters of religious
belief. I am less disinterested; I have the greatest
desire, nay, even a great hope, to see you some day
believe as I do.” We have seen, also, what
Kennedy said of him in Greece. Dr. Millingen
bears the same testimony:
“During the whole of the time
that I visited him, I never heard him utter a single
word of contempt for the Christian religion. On
the contrary, he used often to say, that nothing could
be more reprehensible than to turn into ridicule those
who believed in it, since in this strange world it
is equally difficult to arrive at knowing what one
is or is not to believe; and since many freethinkers
teach doctrines which are as much beyond the reach
of human comprehension as the mysteries of the revelation
itself.”
When, by habit of looking at serious
things from their absurd and ridiculous side, he feared
he had done the same with regard to some religious
ceremony, he at once hastened to explain himself.
Thus he writes to Moore from Pisa:
“I am afraid that this sounds
flippant, but I don’t mean it to be so; only
my turn of mind is so given to taking things in the
absurd point of view, that it breaks out in spite
of me every now and then. Still, I do assure
you that I am a very good Christian. Whether you
believe me in this, I do not know.”
But much as he respected sincere religious
feelings, equally did he detest that hypocrisy which
despises in secret the idol it adores in public.
Even at the transition period of what has been called
his skepticism, it was extremely distasteful to him
to speak against religion, to despise and mock even
the hollow worship practiced outwardly from human
motives and personal interest. In Livadia at this
time he met with a Greek bishop, whose actions were
quite at variance with his language. How great
the antipathy Lord Byron conceived for him, may be
seen by the notes appended to the first and second
cantos of “Childe Harold.” For the
Pharisees of our days he felt all the anger due to
whited sepulchres. No, certainly, it was not true
virtue in general, nor any one virtue in particular,
that he laughed at sometimes; nor was it friendship,
or love, or religion, or any truly respectable sentiment
that ever excited his mirth. He only ridiculed
semblances, vain appearances, when those who paraded
them did so from personal interest. Lord
Byron knew too well, by experience, that many virtues
admired and set forth as such do but wear a mask in
reality; and he thought it useful for society to divest
them of it, and show the hidden visage. Why should
he have shown any consideration for the virtue that
patronizes charity-balls, in order to acquire the right
of violating, with impunity, the duties of a Christian
wife? or that other female virtue which weighs itself
in the balance with the privilege of directing Almacks?
or that, wishing to unite the advantages of modesty
with the gratification of passion? In short, why
should he have shown consideration for persons whose
merit consists in never allowing themselves to
be seen as they are? He was very disrespectful,
likewise, toward certain friendships that he knew
by experience to be full of wordy counsel, but finding
nothing to say in the way of consolation or defense.
This peculiar variety of friendship had made him suffer
greatly. In his serious poems he calls it “the
loss of his illusions;” and expresses himself
with misanthropical indignation, or with a bleeding
heart. But, returning to a milder philosophy,
he ended by smiling and jesting at it, in words like
these:
“Look’d grave and pale to
see her friend’s fragility,
For which most friends reserve their sensibility.”
Seriously; was he bound to any great
tenderness toward such friendship as that? And
does it not suffice to set Lord Byron right with true
friendship to hear him say, after having laughed
about false friends:
“But this is not my maxim:
had it been,
Some heart-aches had been
spared me: yet I care not
I would not be a tortoise in his screen
Of stubborn shell, which waves
and weather wear not.
’Tis better, on the whole, to have
felt and seen
That which humanity may bear,
or bear not:
Twill teach discernment to the sensitive,
And not to pour their ocean in a sieve."
Friendship was so necessary to him
that he wrote to Moore, on the eve of his marriage,
15th of October, 1814:
“An’ there were any thing
in marriage that would make a difference between my
friends and me, particularly in your case, I would
none on’t.”
People should read all he said of Lord Clare and Moore, and
see with what almost jealous susceptibility he guarded the title of friend,
before they can understand the value he attached to
true friendship. But among many of the privileges
he conceded to friendship, duties also held
their place.
And if we pass from friendship to
love, could he really bestow such respect on the loves
of a Lady Adeline, or of those who, he said, “embrace
you to-day, thinking of the novel they will write to-morrow.”
His ideal of true love has been noticed; and he became
impatient when he saw it confounded with any thing
else. At twenty-two years of age he wrote to
his young friend, the Rev. Mr. Harness:
“I told you the fate of B
and H in my last. So much
for these sentimentalists, who console themselves
in their stews for the loss the never-to-be-recovered
loss the despair of the refined attachment
of a couple of drabs! You censure my life, Harness:
when I compare myself with these men, my elders and
my betters, I really begin to conceive myself a monument
of prudence a walking statue without
feeling or failing; and yet the world in general hath
given me a proud pre-eminence over them in profligacy.
Yet I like the men, and, God knows, ought not to condemn
their aberrations. But I own I feel provoked when
they dignify all this by the name of love romantic
attachments for things marketable for a dollar!”
Yes, Lord Byron never did respect
the love that can be bartered for dollars. And
afterward, when irritation had given way to a milder
and more tolerant philosophy, he took the liberty
of laughing at it, both in prose and verse. It
may however, be urged against him, that he sometimes
turned into ridicule even his deepest sentiments; and
Moore remarks this as a defeat, apropos of the jesting
tone he assumed once at Bologna, when writing to Hoppner.
But Moore forgets to say, that while his heart called
him to Ravenna, he was speaking against the counsels
given by Hoppner, who, in order to deter him from this visit, for reasons
previously cited, had
made the darkest prognostications regarding its consequence;
and though he could not shake Lord Byron’s determination,
it is very probable that he may have upset his imagination.
Thus he was trying to show himself ready for every
thing. Such pleasantries are like the song of
one who is alarmed in the dark. Moreover, from
his manner of judging human nature, and his lively
sense of the ridiculous, Lord Byron was well aware
that a light tone is alone admissible for speaking
to others of a love they do not share, and more especially
when they disapprove of it. He felt that the gayety
of Ovid and the gallantry of Horace are better suited
to indifferent people than Petrarch’s high-flown
phrases and sentimentalities, or Werther’s despair.
It was through this same nice perception of the sentiments
entertained by indifferent individuals that he sometimes
adopted a light, playful tone in conversation, or
in his correspondence, when speaking of friendship,
devoted feelings of any kind, and a host of sentiments
very serious and deep within his own heart, but which
he believed less calculated to interest others.
And if sometimes his singular penetration of the human
heart called forth mockery, it sprang more frequently
from seeing fine sentiments put forth in flagrant
contradiction with conduct, or morality looked upon
as a mere thing of outward decorum, speedily to be
set aside, if once the actors were removed from the
eyes of the world. He would not grant his esteem
to fine sentiments expressed by writers who could
be bribed; to the promises of heroes who noisily enroll
combatants, while themselves remaining safe by their
fireside; or to the generosity that displays itself
from a balcony. And, assuredly, he had a right
to be particular in his estimate of this latter virtue,
which he himself always practiced secretly, and in
the shade. He would not consent to its being bartered,
nor that people should have the honor of it without
any sacrifice on their part. Thus he replied
to Moore, who was in an ecstasy about the generosity
of Lord some one: “I shall believe
all that when you prove to me that there is no advantage
in openly helping a man like you.” With
wonderful, and, I might almost say, supernatural perspicacity,
Lord Byron penetrated into the arcana of souls, and
did not come out thence with a very good opinion of
what he had seen. But, kind as he was, he did
not like to probe too deeply the motives of others,
especially as a rule of action for himself. As
he says in his admirable satire of “Don Juan,”
“’Tis sad to burrow deep to
roots of things,
So much are they besmeared with earth.”
Lastly, his mockeries were all directed
against the vice he most abhorred hypocrisy;
for he looked upon that as a gangrene to the soul,
the cause of most of the evils that afflict society,
and certainly of all his own misfortunes. As
long as he was obliged to bear it, under the depressing
influence of England’s misty atmosphere, he felt
by turns saddened and indignant. But when he
reached Italy, his soul caught the bright rays that
emanate from a southern sky, and he preferred to combat
hypocrisy with the lighter weapons of pleasantry.
But whichsoever arm he wielded, he always pursued
the enemy remorselessly, following into every fastness,
of which none knew better than himself each winding
and each resource. For hypocrisy had been the
bane of his life; it had rendered useless for happiness
that combination he possessed of Heaven’s choicest
gifts; the plenitude of affections, numberless qualities
most charming in domestic life, for he had been exiled
from the family circle. Hypocrisy had forced
him to despise a country also that could act toward
him like an unnatural parent, rather than a true mother,
wounding him with calumnies, and obstinately depreciating
him, solely because she allowed hypocrisy to reign
on her soil. Such, then, were the virtues which
he permitted himself to mock at.
“We must not make out a ridicule
where none exists,” says La Bruyere; but
it is well to see that which has a being, and to draw
it forth gracefully, in a manner that may both please
and instruct.
As to true, holy, pure, undeniable
virtues, no one more than he admired and respected
them. “Any trait of virtue or courage,”
says one of his biographers, “caused him deep
emotion, and would draw tears from his eyes, provided
always he were convinced that it had not been actuated
by a desire of shining or producing effect.”
“A generous action,” says
another, “the remembrance of patriotism, personal
sacrifice, disinterestedness, would cause in him the
most sublime emotions, the most brilliant thoughts.”
The more his opinion as to the rarity of virtue appeared
to him well-founded, the more did he render homage
when he met with it. The more he felt the difficulty
of overcoming passions, the more did a victory gained
over them excite his admiration.
“Pray make my respects to Mrs.
Hoppner, and assure her of my unalterable reverence
for the singular goodness of her disposition, which
is not without its reward even in this world.
For those who are no great believers in human virtues
would discover enough in her to give them a better
opinion of their fellow-creatures, and what
is still more difficult of themselves,
as being of the same species, however inferior in
approaching its nobler models.”
At Coppet he was more touched by the
conjugal affection of the young Duchesse de
Broglie for her husband, than he was attracted by the
genius even of her mother, Madame de Stael. “Nothing,”
says he in his memoranda, “was more agreeable
than to see the manifestation of domestic tenderness
in this young woman.” When he received at
Pisa the posthumous message sent by a beautiful, angelic
young creature, who had caught a glimpse of him but
once, and who, nevertheless, in the solemn hours of
her agony, thought of him, and prayed to God for him,
it made a deep impression on his mind.
“In the evening,” says
Madame G , “he spoke to me
at great length of this piety and touching virtue.”
Mr. Stendhall, who knew him during
his stay at Milan in 1816, says: “I
passed almost all my evenings with Lord B. Whenever
this singular man was excited and spoke with enthusiasm,
his sentiments were noble, great, and generous; in
short, worthy of his genius.”
And then when Mr. Stendhall speaks
of walking alone with him in the large green-room
at La Scala, he adds:
“Lord Byron made his appearance
for half an hour every evening, holding the most delightful
conversation it was ever my good-fortune to hear.
A volume of new ideas and generous sentiments came
pouring out in such novel form, that one fancied one’s
self enjoying them for the first time. The rest
of the evening the great man lapsed into the English
noble.”
Even biographers most hostile to Lord
Byron render justice to his sensibility and respect
for real virtue, for all that is true and estimable.
And if we seek proofs of the same in his poems and
correspondence, we shall find it at every page, not
excepting “Don Juan,” the satire
that most exposed him to the anger and calumny of
cant. This is why I shall confine myself
to borrowing quotations from this poem. For instance,
in speaking of military glory, he says:
“The drying up a single tear has
more
Of honest fame, than shedding seas of
gore.
“And why? because it
brings self-approbation;
Whereas the other, after all
its glare,
Shouts, bridges, arches, pensions from
a nation,
Are nothing but a child of Murders rattles."
And then again:
“One life saved ...
... is a thing to recollect
Far sweeter than the greenest
laurels sprung
From the manure of human clay, though
deck’d
With all the praises ever
said or sung;
Though hymn’d by every harp, unless
within
Your heart join chorus, Fame is but a din."
When he speaks of Souvaroff, who,
with a hand still reeking from the massacre of 40,000
combatants, began his dispatch to the Autocrat in
these words:
“Glory to God and
to the Empress [Catharine]! Ismail’s ours!”
Lord Byron exclaims:
“Powers
Eternal! such names mingled!
“Methinks these are the most
tremendous words
Since ‘Mene, Mene, Tekel,’ and ‘Upharsin,’
Which hands or pens have ever traced of swords.
Heaven help me! I’m but little of a
parson:
What Daniel read was short-hand of the Lord’s,
Severe, sublime; the prophet wrote no farce on
The fate of nations; but this Russ so
witty
Could rhyme, like Nero, o’er a burning city.
“He wrote this Polar melody, and
set it,
Duly accompanied by shrieks
and groans,
Which few will sing, I trust, but none
forget it
For I will teach, if possible,
the stones
To rise against earths tyrants."
And then when he speaks of truly virtuous
men the Washingtons and Franklins those
who preferred a quiet, retired life; so as better to
walk in the paths of justice and goodness, like the
ancient heroes of Sparta, one feels that his words
come really from the heart. But if I wished to
make extracts of all the proofs contained in his works,
of respect and enthusiasm for true virtue, a volume
of quotations would be requisite. Thus I have
only chosen some at hazard, selecting them principally
from that admirable satire of “Don Juan,”
which combines more deep philosophy and true morality
than is to be found in the works of many moralists;
and I may likewise say more wit, and knowledge of the
human heart, more kindness and indulgence, than ever
before were united in a volume of verse or prose,
and more, perhaps, than ever will be. Yet, despite
of all this, the independence, boldness, and above
all, the true state of things revealed in “Don
Juan,” excited great anger throughout the political,
religious, and moral world of England; indeed, passion
went so far in distorting, that the tendency and moral
bearing of the poem were quite misunderstood.
With regard to France, where this satire is only known
through a prose translation, which mars half its cleverness,
“Don Juan” serves, however, the purpose
of an inexhaustible reservoir, whence writers unwittingly
draw much they deem their own. Besides, from
analogy of race, he is, perhaps, better appreciated
in France than in his own country; for few English
do understand what true justice he rendered himself
when he said, that, in point of fact, his
character was far too lenient, the greatest proof of
his muse’s discontent being a smile.
But if, despite all this evidence,
people should still persist, as is very possible,
in asserting that Lord Byron ridiculed, satirized,
and denied the existence of real virtues, at least
we would ask to have these virtues named, so as to
be able to answer. What are the virtues so insulted?
Is it truth, piety, generosity, firmness, abnegation,
devotedness, independence, patriotism, humanity, heroism?
But if he denied not one of these, if he only ridiculed
and satirized their semblances, their hypocritical
shadows, then let critics and envious minds the
ignorant, or the would-be ignorant let them
cease, in the name of justice, thus to offer lying
insult to a great spirit no longer able to defend
himself.
Perhaps he did not render sufficient
homage to that great and respectable virtue of his
country conjugal fidelity; but he has told
us why. It appeared to him that this virtue,
supposed to stamp society, was, in truth, more a pretense
than a reality among the higher classes in England;
and, if he examined his own heart, this virtue wore
a name for him that had been the martyrdom of his
whole life.
I may say, farther, that when he saw
a truth shining at the expense of some hypocrisy,
he did not shut it up in his casket of precious
things, to carry them with him to the grave, nor
did he only name them in a low voice to his secretaries,
because by speaking aloud he might have done some
harm to himself (as, however, the great Goethe
did and acknowledged). Lord Byron, without
thinking of the consequences that might ensue to himself,
deemed, on the contrary, that truth ought to be courageously
unveiled: and to the heroism of deeds he added
the heroism of words.
It must not be forgotten, either,
that there existed a certain kind of timidity among
the other elements of his character, and that jesting
often helps to season a tiresome conversation, rendering
it less difficult, besides enabling us to hide our
real sentiments.