After Colonel Lee’s death,
which happened when Tidy was about ten years old,
the plantation and all the slaves were sold, and Miss
Matilda, with Tidy, who was her own personal property,
found a home with her brother. Mr. Richard Lee
owned an estate about twenty miles from Rosevale.
His lands had once been well cultivated, but now received
very little attention, for medicinal springs had been
discovered there a few years before, and it was expected
that these springs, by being made a resort for invalids
and fashionable people, would bring to the family all
the income they could desire.
Mr. and Mrs. Lee were not very pleasant
people. They were selfish and penurious, and
hard-hearted and severe towards their servants.
They no doubt were happy to have their sister take
up her abode with them; but there is reason to believe
she was chiefly welcome on account of the valuable
little piece of property she brought with her.
Tidy was just exactly what Mrs. Lee wanted to fill
a place in her family, which she had never before
been able to supply to her satisfaction. She needed
her as an under-nurse, and waiter-and-tender in general
upon her four children. Amelia, the eldest, was
just Tidy’s age, and Susan was two years younger.
Then came Lemuel, a boy of three, and George, the baby.
Mammy Grace was the family nurse,
but as she was growing old and somewhat infirm, she
required a pair of young, sprightly feet to run after
little Lemmy to keep him out of mischief, and to carry
the teething, worrying baby about. Tidy was just
the child for her.
The morning after her arrival, Mrs.
Lee instructed her in her duties thus:
“You are to do what Mammy Grace
and the children tell you to. See that Lemmy
doesn’t stuff things into his ears and nose;
mind you don’t let the baby fall, and behave
yourself.”
She wasn’t told what would be
the consequence if she did not “behave herself,”
but Tidy felt that she had something to fear from that
flashing eye and heavy brow. Miss Matilda had
protected her, as far as she was able, though without
the child’s knowledge, by saying to her sister
that she was willing her little servant should be employed
in the family, but that she was never to be whipped.
“You’re mighty saving
of your little piece of flesh and blood,” said
her sister-in-law. “I find it doesn’t
work well to be too tender; they need a little cuffing
now and then to keep them straight.”
“Tidy is a good child,”
replied Miss Matilda. “She always does as
she is told, and I have never had occasion to punish
her in my life; and I can not consent to her being
treated severely.”
“We shall see,” said Mrs.
Lee; “but, I tell you, I take no impudence from
my hands.”
Miss Matilda’s stipulation and
her constant presence in the family no doubt screened
Tidy from much that was unpleasant from her new mistress;
for if children or servants are ever so well inclined,
an ugly and easily excited temper in a superior will
provoke evil dispositions in them, and make occasions
of punishment. But in this case the mistress
was evidently held in check. A knock on the head
sometimes, a kick or a cross word, was the greatest
severity she ventured to inflict; so that, upon the
whole, the new home was a pleasant and happy one.
The services Tidy was required to
render were a perfect delight to her. Like all
children, she liked to be associated with those of
her own age, and, though called a slave, to all intents
and purposes she was received as the playmate and
companion of Amelia and Susan. They were good-natured,
agreeable little girls, and it was a pleasure rather
than a task to walk to and from school, and carry their
books and dinner-basket for them. And to go into
the play-house, and have the handling of the dolls,
the tea-sets, and toys, was employment as charming
as it was new.
The nursery was in the cabin of Mammy
Grace, which was situated a few steps from the family
mansion, and was distinguished from the log-huts of
the other slaves, by having brick walls and two rooms.
The inner room contained the baby’s cradle,
a crib for the little one who had not yet outgrown
his noon-day nap, her own bed, and now a cot for Tidy.
In the outer stood the spinning-wheel, at
which the old nurse wrought when not occupied with
the children, a small table, an old chest
of drawers, and a few rude chairs. Some old carpets
which had been discarded from the house were laid
over the floors, and gave an air of comfort to the
place. One shelf by the side of the fireplace
held all the china and plate they had to use; for,
you must know, little readers, that slave cabins contain
very few of the conveniences which are so familiar
to you. To assert, as some people do, that the
negroes do not need them, is simply to say that they
have never been used to the common comforts of life,
and so do not know their worth.
Nevertheless, the place with all its
scantiness of furniture was a happy abode for Tidy,
who found in Mammy Grace even a better mother than
old Rosa had been to her; for, besides being kind
and cheerful, she was pious, and from her lips it
was that Tidy first heard the name of God. Would
you believe it? Tidy had lived to be ten years
old in this Christian land, and had never heard of
the God who made her. Miss Lee, with all her
kindness, was not a Christian, and never read the Bible,
offered prayer, or went to church; so that the poor
child had grown up thus far as ignorant of religious
truth as a heathen.
We may well consider then the providence
of God which brought her under the care of Mammy Grace,
the negro nurse, as another link in that golden chain
of love which was to draw her up out of the shame and
misery of her abject condition to the knowledge and
service of her Heavenly Father.