CONCLUSION.
The way of transgressors is hard.
Early did Charles Duran indulge in habits of disobedience, early
was he forgetful of God, early did he run
into the paths of vice and intemperance, and early
did he go down to his grave.
Disobedience to parents is a fearful
sin! Children think they know what is best for
themselves. Parental restraint sometimes seems
irksome to them; but God has wisely ordained that
in our youth we should be under the instruction and
control of our parents. Children, instead of feeling
that parental control is oppressive to them, should
learn to be thankful for it. It is enough for
well-instructed and well-disposed children, generally,
to know what the wishes of their parents are.
Much of their happiness is derived from compliance
with those wishes. The approbation of their parents
will afford such children far more pleasure than all
their forbidden indulgences.
The school history of Charles Duran
will not fail, I trust, to make a suitable impression
upon the minds of my youthful readers. Scholars
sometimes think that it is not a great offense for
them to violate the rules of their school, neglect
their books, or be unkind even to some of their school-associates.
So this boy thought. The result of his course
is before us. All such children should know that
by such a course of conduct they are laying the foundation
for a bad character. They may, for awhile, escape
punishment; they may not be expelled from school;
they may possibly retain their places in their class;
but they are acquiring those habits which, if not
corrected, will bring ruin upon them by and by.
This boy’s sporting habits ought
not to be lightly passed over. He was exceedingly
fond of a gun. The indulgence of this passion
led him into habits of idleness and cruelty.
Boys should rarely, if ever, be allowed the use of
fire-arms: they are always dangerous. The
habits and associations to which their use leads are
generally objectionable. Boys that are constantly
around the brooks after little fishes, and in the
woods in pursuit of little birds, had better be at
their books. We always fear that idle boys will
make idle men.
We see from the history of Charles
Duran the importance of early religious training.
Had his parents pursued a different course with him,
he might have grown up to be a blessing to them, and
a useful member of society: “Train up a
child in the way he should go; and when he is old
he will not depart from it.” Prov. xxii,
6.
When, O when will parents lay this
to heart! How many fathers and mothers have been
brought down to the grave with sorrow, by neglecting
this important duty!
The history of Charles Duran is a
warning to all boys who are inclined to indulge in
Sabbath-breaking; to form bad associations; to tipple;
or to visit places of improper amusement. See
his dreadful end! Mark that fatal night!
Remember that he had been preparing for that season
of riot and debauch by previous indulgence. He
came not to his wretched condition all at once.
He was preparing for it in his early disobedience, in
his neglect of instruction, in his unkindness
to his school-mates, in delighting to injure
those who were smaller and weaker than himself, in
his idle sporting habits, in the indulgence
of his bad temper, in ministering to his
perverse will, in his Sunday rambling, in
associating with the vile, in his tippling
habits, and, finally, in throwing off all
parental regard and restraint. He had now come
to the verge of the whirlpool of destruction, and,
in a frenzied moment, he threw himself into the awful
vortex! Beware of the first sin! “Enter
not into the paths of the wicked, and go not in the
way of evil men. Avoid it, pass not by it, turn
from it, and pass away.” Prov. iv, 14,
15.