CHAPTER FIFTY-THREE - CONCLUDING WORDS
It is my sincere belief and
I cherish the belief in spite of this horrible, wretched
war which seems to be shattering the very foundations
of everything that we hold dear, destroying all the
humane and moral achievements that have been laboriously
built up in the course of many centuries that
the time will come when the world will be practically
free from pain and suffering. Almost all disease
will be conquered, accidents will be rare, the fear
of starvation or poverty or unemployment will no longer
haunt men and women, every infant born will be well-born
and welcome, and the numerous anxieties and ambitions
that now disturb the lives of so many of the earth’s
inhabitants will no longer plague us. They will
be the dead memories of a dead and forgotten past.
Yes, I believe that the time will
come when the world will be practically free from
pain and suffering. But there is one exception.
I do not believe that we will ever be able entirely
to eliminate the tragedies of the heart.
For our physical ills, which will be few in number,
there will be a socialized medical profession; everywhere
there will be free hospitals and convalescent homes.
The unemployment problem will be dealt with by the
State, and dealt with so that there will be no unemployment
problem. There will be work for everybody and
everybody will do the work which he finds most congenial.
But the State, I fear, will be able to do nothing
in affairs of the heart. When John loves Mary
with every fiber of his soul, and Mary remains completely
indifferent, then no State physician and no Government
official will be able to offer any balm or consolation
to poor John. And if Mary loves Robert, and Robert
behaves so that he breaks Mary’s heart, then
no official glue will put it together and no convalescent
home will make it whole.
Yes, I believe that love pangs and
tragedies of the heart will cause mortal men and women
suffering even under the most perfect social regime.
But I also believe that these pangs will be less acute,
that the suffering will be less cruel than it is now.
Proper ideas about love, freer intercourse
between the sexes, a normal and regular sex life,
a saner attitude towards many things which are now
unjustly considered shameful or criminal will, to a
large degree, prevent the heart tragedies and facilitate
their cure where they cannot be prevented.
And it is the duty of everybody who
loves mankind to study the various phases of human
sexuality and help to spread sane and humane ideas
on the subject of Sex and Love.
The author trusts that WOMAN:
HER SEX AND LOVE LIFE will help, in some slight degree,
in spreading healthy, sane and honest ideas about sex
among the men and women of America.